Thinking of proposing this Valentine’s Day ? Here’s what NOT to do!
Ah, Valentine’s Day—the universal day of love, overpriced flowers, and heart-shaped everything. If you’re planning to propose, congratulations! It’s a big, exciting moment. But before you get down on one knee, let’s talk about some absolute shockers you might want to avoid.
1. The Food-Related Fiasco
We get it—hiding the ring in a fancy dessert or a glass of bubbly sounds romantic in theory. But in reality? It’s a choking hazard, a dentist’s nightmare, and a potential “well, that was awkward” moment at the ER. No one wants to propose while fishing a diamond out of a half-chewed steak.
2. The Copy-Paste Proposal
Recreating that viral engagement video you saw on TikTok might seem like a cute idea, but remember—your love story is unique! A heartfelt, personal proposal beats a cookie-cutter one any day. (Plus, let’s be real—if it involves too much choreography, you’re probably going to trip.)
4. The “It’s Just a Prank, Bro” Proposal
Fake proposals—whether as a joke or to “test” your partner—are not funny. Proposing should be a genuine, heartfelt moment, not an emotional rollercoaster that ends in either tears or an accidental slap. Save the pranks for April 1st – or maybe just avoid altogether!
5. The Surprise-They-Don’t-Want Surprise
Sure, surprises are fun—but not when they involve major life decisions. Before proposing, make sure you and your partner have at least some conversations about the future, marriage, and whether they even want to get engaged yet. A “no” on Valentine’s Day is a tough one to come back from.
6. The “Oops, I Forgot the Ring” Moment
Forgetting the ring is like turning up to your wedding without your outfit—technically, it’s still possible to proceed, but why would you put yourself through that stress? Triple-check that you have the ring before you leave the house (and no, a ring pop is not a backup plan).
7. The Mid-Argument Proposal
Proposing as a way to “fix” a fight? Yikes. A proposal should be a celebration of love, not a last-ditch effort to avoid sleeping on the couch. Timing is everything!
Whatever You Do—Make It You
At the end of the day, the best proposal is one that feels true to you and your relationship. Whether it’s a grand gesture or a quiet, intimate moment at home, if it’s filled with love and thoughtfulness, you’re on the right track.
So, however you pop the question this Valentine’s—good luck! And if all goes well, start thinking about wedding planning (but that’s a whole other blog post). 😉